By JEFF BROWN
The year was 1981. The artist was Rick Springfield. The song, was Jessie's Girl.
See how this classic song exposes an age old truth...
"Jessie is a friend,
Yeah, I know he's been a good friend of mine
But lately something's changed
It ain't hard to define
Jessie's got himself a girl and I want to make her mine (reptilian brain)
And she's watching him with those eyes (high interest level)
And she's lovin' him with that body, I just know it! (high interest level)
And he's holding her in his arms late, late at night (high interest level)
You know I wish that I had Jessie's girl (reptilian brain)
I wish that I had Jessie's girl
Where can I find a woman like that? (all over...)
I play along with the charade
That doesn't seem to be a reason to change
You know I feel so dirty when they start talking cute
I wanna tell her that I love her but the point is probably moot (It is...)
And I'm lookin' in the mirror all the time
Wonderin' what she don't see in me (interest)
I've been funny; I've been cool with the lines
Ain't that the way love's supposed to be?
(not when she's interested in someone else!)
Tell me, why can't I find a woman like that?
1. Don't chase women that aren't available. It's a waste of time when you could be hanging out with someone who's actually interested in and emotionally available.
2. Women can only be truly intrested in one man at a time.
Could she cheat on him with you? Sure, it happens occasionally. Will you end up together? Probably not. Will you waste a lot of time and energy longing for a girl that’s not truly available, when you could be with someone who is truly available and interested in you? Yes, it happens all the time.
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